Human Beings are complicated species. In this complicated world to thrive success we need to know ourselves first. Knowing ourselves means knowing our advantages, disadvantages and most importantly knowing our space for improvement. We all know that no one is perfect in this world. It is alright to have some flaws in ourselves.
A successful person is a one which knows themselves the best , they know their advantages, disadvantages and they do their level best to overcome their weak points.
You are never late to learn, never late for a new beginning and never late to follow what your heart desires. It does not matters at what point you start to know about yourselves just remember every flower blooms at its own time and each and every flower has its own beauty. Never forget that.
Now, many people think that they know themselves but the question is do they? In order to know ourselves we need to answer some of the questions that to truthfully. If you truly wants to know yourself then first thing you should do is be truthful towards yourself, there is no need to hide yourself from yourself.
For the rest of the article you would need a pen and paper or I personally recommend you to download a dairy with a lock, it will help you to have some privacy as well as it would br easy for you to add or deduct some points from your answers at any point without any hitch-potch there are many apps available that may aid you in this category.
Now, get ready to write or type it down whatever you choose. Remember honesty is the best policy.It is alright if you are unable to answer right away, take your time do research if necessary and when you are 100% sure about your answer then and only then move to the next question.
Now, without any further ado let's get started. Answer the following questions with full honesty:
1. Who am I?
In this, you just need to describe yourself. Write down about yourself think of it as your bio in your own social media account. Take examples to define yourself. There is no hurry to answer this question you just need to calm yourself down, take some deep breaths and think. What makes you well....You. There is no word limit to your answer write as much as you can as after this question you will be able to make a self-image of yourself.
2. How do you view your life?
You can view your life in many ways but in this you just need to view it either positive or negative prospective. For example you can say that you view your life in a positive manner it may mean that you are having a successful life or you are on the way to get success. Success here means that you have achieved your goals that you have set which you may have set a month ago, 6 moths ago , a year go or 5 year ago.It does not matter when you set your goal what matters is are you able to achieve it or are you on your way to achieve it. Remember, goal does not mean they are career oriented only they can be in any other field like academic, sports, fitness, family relationship etc.
3. Who are your role model?
Role model is the one to whom you look up to. There can be a lot of person that may inspire you and from whom you want to like. They can be from anywhere, they may be the person around you like your mother, father, brother or sister or they can be anyone from the globe it does not matter the place from where the person belongs to what matters that is what person inspires you or makes you want to be like them. Now, there can be a lot of person that can be your role model make a list of them and then, slowly cut that list down like the top 10 , then the top 5 and finally your top 3 role models. By answering this question you will be able to find a person you look up to the most.
4. What are the qualities to admire in your role models?
This one is easy when you have your top 3 role models list that you have made just now, the next step is to write down the main reason of what made them to be in your list, their qualities you admire in them. After answering this question you will be able to find the quality you want to add to yourself or want to polish within yourself .
5.What are your top 3 strengths?
You may have many strengths within yourself just write them all and then again slowly cut them out and make a list of your top 3 strength. A strength of yours is the attribute or quality of yours in which you are the best, the one that you can talk to almost anyone with full confidence. This strength of yours can be something everyone knows about yourself or the one that only you knows for example you may be a bathroom singer and you may have really good singing qualities too but you just do not tell or show this quality of yours to anyone. Feel free to write what you think is your strength as there is no one to judge you.
6. What are your top obstacles you had overcome?
You definitely have once or twice have been gone through a phase in your life from where you have learnt a major life-long important lesson for your life. Write down those obstacles you faced and also write you overcome them with the lesson you have learned from this incident. Here we are not talking about how you were unable to open a soda cap then had help of someone thus, moral never hesitate to ask help. Well you could include that if you want but here we are talking about your top obstacles. After answering this question you can also add to your strengths that you are a fighter and never gives up.
7. What do you love doing?
This is the simple one, just make a list of things you love doing it can be career oriented or your passion or your hobby or anything you want to call. Just write want are the things that make you feel satisfied, happy or relaxed after their completion are the only things that you love the most. They can be things you do which tend to make you loose track of your time. Yes you could say gaming or streaming or shopping or anything you want.
8. If money was abundant in your life what would you do?
People tend to say if only we would have enough money we would have done this or done that. Well here is your chance, think that you have all the funds you need then what are the things that you would do. Write everything you will do. Again, be honest write what you really think you would do there is no one else to see your answer so put your inner politician at bay and then write.
9. What is that one thing you will still do even if you are rich?
Let's just open more gates of your imagination and then tell what is that one thing that you do. normally in your daily life that will be continued even if you are rich. It could be anything it maybe something career oriented or your hobby or maybe a habit of yours or the way you treat others anything that may come to your mind.
10. What completes you as a person?
What is that one thing that you needs the most everyday that completes you, the absence of which may cause a void within you. Some people say family, some say their job, some may say their pet or their wardrobe or there favourite food it could be anything. Write what you think that completes you again I will remind you that their is no one to judge their is no right or a wrong answer its just what makes you..You.
11. What are you complimented for usually?
This is the one of the easiest question, you just have to write what are the things that you get the most compliments for it can be your way of speaking, your art, your poems or anything.When you answer this question you may be able to find an hidden or a talent of yours that you may have not noticed.
Well that's all for todays discovery. Hope by the end of your all the answers you would get to know yourself better and be able to carry yourself more confidently than before.
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